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		<title>By: s. de vries</title>
		<link>http://www.fashion-incubator.com/archive/bloggers_mothers_and_tommys_run_amok/comment-page-1/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>s. de vries</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 19:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so curieus what the chemical formula for pleating permanet is???
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so curieus what the chemical formula for pleating permanet is???</p>
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		<title>By: Sweetart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sweetart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2007 20:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kathleen, please come back to patternreview. I&#039;m just beginning to sew, and I feel like I&#039;ve learned more about construction from your blog than from all the sewing books I&#039;ve read combined. I know I read somewhere on here that it&#039;s easier to teach a beginner than an expert, and there are a heck of a lot of beginners over at patternreview who could benefit from your advice.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kathleen, please come back to patternreview. I&#8217;m just beginning to sew, and I feel like I&#8217;ve learned more about construction from your blog than from all the sewing books I&#8217;ve read combined. I know I read somewhere on here that it&#8217;s easier to teach a beginner than an expert, and there are a heck of a lot of beginners over at patternreview who could benefit from your advice.</p>
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		<title>By: red_swirl</title>
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		<dc:creator>red_swirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2007 13:59:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, it occurs to me that blaming yourself for things going wrong is perhaps a (stereotyplically) feminine response.  (And Kathleen, if you can openly like electrics, you&#039;re moving past outdated concepts of men&#039;s &amp; women&#039;s work).

Also, blaming yourself is a response of people who are geographically isolated, and maybe a little insecure ... homesewers are going against the grain and much kudos to them -  consumerism is currently king.

I&#039;m glad you can professionally critique patterns offered to homesewers, that&#039;s useful.  Companies don&#039;t like changing, but they also worry about reputation ;)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, it occurs to me that blaming yourself for things going wrong is perhaps a (stereotyplically) feminine response.  (And Kathleen, if you can openly like electrics, you&#8217;re moving past outdated concepts of men&#8217;s &#038; women&#8217;s work).</p>
<p>Also, blaming yourself is a response of people who are geographically isolated, and maybe a little insecure &#8230; homesewers are going against the grain and much kudos to them &#8211;  consumerism is currently king.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you can professionally critique patterns offered to homesewers, that&#8217;s useful.  Companies don&#8217;t like changing, but they also worry about reputation <img src='http://www.fashion-incubator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Tafffy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tafffy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2006 20:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kathleen what a sweet thing to say about home sewers &amp; patterns.  I&#039;ve always taken the attitude that no matter what I&#039;m not going to look like the photo on the pattern.  When the base line for the pattern is off many inches &amp; lbs it&#039;s just not going to work the same way.  I don&#039;t beat myself up though I just look at my experiments as experiments.  I do have a small amount of success though.  Whenever I&#039;m able to sew something and it stays together long enough for me to wear it I consider myself a success and I actually receive compliments.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kathleen what a sweet thing to say about home sewers &#038; patterns.  I&#8217;ve always taken the attitude that no matter what I&#8217;m not going to look like the photo on the pattern.  When the base line for the pattern is off many inches &#038; lbs it&#8217;s just not going to work the same way.  I don&#8217;t beat myself up though I just look at my experiments as experiments.  I do have a small amount of success though.  Whenever I&#8217;m able to sew something and it stays together long enough for me to wear it I consider myself a success and I actually receive compliments.</p>
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		<title>By: Camille  Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Camille  Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2005 09:24:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kathleen,

I&#039;m so happy to know it was Butterick and McCalls&#039; and Simplicity&#039;s faults and not mine.

though I have kind of bad eye hand coordination and think that that is part of the problem...  I don&#039;t dare sew clothing any more, I think they would come out pretty horrible.

I make lumpy homey looking quilts and patchwork shower curtains.  :-)

Nice blog.

Camille
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kathleen,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so happy to know it was Butterick and McCalls&#8217; and Simplicity&#8217;s faults and not mine.</p>
<p>though I have kind of bad eye hand coordination and think that that is part of the problem&#8230;  I don&#8217;t dare sew clothing any more, I think they would come out pretty horrible.</p>
<p>I make lumpy homey looking quilts and patchwork shower curtains.  <img src='http://www.fashion-incubator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Nice blog.</p>
<p>Camille</p>
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		<title>By: kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2005 00:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wish I could teach them some things. It kind of requires a shift in thinking...the approach to the pattern is not passive tho, patterns are tools and people need to fix them. I&#039;ve always felt sorry for homesewers...they&#039;re fed this line of bull -iow, that if they just follow the directions correctly, they&#039;ll get a positive result but that&#039;s not true. The instructions only work as far as the pattern is correct. Yet, when sewers get a bad result, they blame _themselves_! It boggles the mind. In the industry, a pattern maker who made patterns like that would be fired. But homesewers don&#039;t know they&#039;ve gotten a defective product so they accept the blame for something that happened well before it ever got to them. Nobody holds the pattern companys accountable so there&#039;s no reason for them to improve their product quality.

The difference is, we know where the problem lies and hold that party accountable for repair. With homesewing, it&#039;s a huge project because the responsibility has been deflected to the sewer and I don&#039;t think that&#039;s fair. And it&#039;s hard for each individual person to learn (much less learn they need to learn) what they need in a constructive fashion, where the controls are etc.

I don&#039;t think I could teach in real life to a bunch of people although I wish I could. It seems to work best if I teach teachers or other very experienced people because I have social problems. I come off out here as kind of mean but in real life, I&#039;m a very nice person, very tenderhearted (too tenderhearted) but people easily get the idea from how I write that I&#039;m mean and rigid. I overemphasize things and it comes out as stridence. I can only see that stridence if I&#039;m rereading something I wrote a long time ago.

I have thought that a week long retreat for a bunch of people interested in more advanced drafting and sewing would be fun but I&#039;m not someone who is a set-er up-er of things. But, I&#039;d go where ever anybody invited me. I don&#039;t get invited to homesewing things, just industry stuff (and, no claire&#039;s ever there, lol). I really don&#039;t know much about the homesewing business although I wish I did. I think I have a few ideas that people would really enjoy; things that would really improve the enjoyment of their sewing which would improve their quality of life. Hopefully, they&#039;d find time to teach and pass it along. I worry that so many of our skills are dying, they are on my end and I&#039;m not being reassured with any materials from the professional or enthusiast press. There are no advanced sewing books I can recommend ;(
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish I could teach them some things. It kind of requires a shift in thinking&#8230;the approach to the pattern is not passive tho, patterns are tools and people need to fix them. I&#8217;ve always felt sorry for homesewers&#8230;they&#8217;re fed this line of bull -iow, that if they just follow the directions correctly, they&#8217;ll get a positive result but that&#8217;s not true. The instructions only work as far as the pattern is correct. Yet, when sewers get a bad result, they blame _themselves_! It boggles the mind. In the industry, a pattern maker who made patterns like that would be fired. But homesewers don&#8217;t know they&#8217;ve gotten a defective product so they accept the blame for something that happened well before it ever got to them. Nobody holds the pattern companys accountable so there&#8217;s no reason for them to improve their product quality.</p>
<p>The difference is, we know where the problem lies and hold that party accountable for repair. With homesewing, it&#8217;s a huge project because the responsibility has been deflected to the sewer and I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s fair. And it&#8217;s hard for each individual person to learn (much less learn they need to learn) what they need in a constructive fashion, where the controls are etc.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think I could teach in real life to a bunch of people although I wish I could. It seems to work best if I teach teachers or other very experienced people because I have social problems. I come off out here as kind of mean but in real life, I&#8217;m a very nice person, very tenderhearted (too tenderhearted) but people easily get the idea from how I write that I&#8217;m mean and rigid. I overemphasize things and it comes out as stridence. I can only see that stridence if I&#8217;m rereading something I wrote a long time ago.</p>
<p>I have thought that a week long retreat for a bunch of people interested in more advanced drafting and sewing would be fun but I&#8217;m not someone who is a set-er up-er of things. But, I&#8217;d go where ever anybody invited me. I don&#8217;t get invited to homesewing things, just industry stuff (and, no claire&#8217;s ever there, lol). I really don&#8217;t know much about the homesewing business although I wish I did. I think I have a few ideas that people would really enjoy; things that would really improve the enjoyment of their sewing which would improve their quality of life. Hopefully, they&#8217;d find time to teach and pass it along. I worry that so many of our skills are dying, they are on my end and I&#8217;m not being reassured with any materials from the professional or enthusiast press. There are no advanced sewing books I can recommend ;(</p>
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		<title>By: Gigi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2005 22:02:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kathleen, please do come back.  We really are a very friendly group who simply share a love of sewing.  This has obviously been a terrible misunderstanding - we just didn&#039;t &quot;get&quot; you and would like to start over.

I hope I&#039;m not out of line here but have you ever considered a 2nd career teaching industrial methods to home sewers?  Many of us enjoy taking online classes.  I&#039;d sign up for yours in a minute and am surely not alone in that.  Just a thought.....
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kathleen, please do come back.  We really are a very friendly group who simply share a love of sewing.  This has obviously been a terrible misunderstanding &#8211; we just didn&#8217;t &#8220;get&#8221; you and would like to start over.</p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;m not out of line here but have you ever considered a 2nd career teaching industrial methods to home sewers?  Many of us enjoy taking online classes.  I&#8217;d sign up for yours in a minute and am surely not alone in that.  Just a thought&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: Beckie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beckie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jun 2005 00:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kathleen, don&#039;t be afraid to go back.  You confused some people who then got pissed but I think everyone understands better now.  Some of us found your info very helpful.  I personally wasn&#039;t pissed at all.  I would really like to see you come back to pattern review.  If you don&#039;t feel comfortable posting I am sure you could still get a lot of info about the top ten sewing peeves you seek just by going through the message boards and reviews.  Best Wishes. :)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kathleen, don&#8217;t be afraid to go back.  You confused some people who then got pissed but I think everyone understands better now.  Some of us found your info very helpful.  I personally wasn&#8217;t pissed at all.  I would really like to see you come back to pattern review.  If you don&#8217;t feel comfortable posting I am sure you could still get a lot of info about the top ten sewing peeves you seek just by going through the message boards and reviews.  Best Wishes. <img src='http://www.fashion-incubator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2005 07:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are they still mad at me? You didn&#039;t say
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are they still mad at me? You didn&#8217;t say <img src='http://www.fashion-incubator.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jun 2005 07:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I certainly hope things are working out better. I wouldn&#039;t know because I&#039;m afraid to go back now. There is nothing more intimidating that a whole slew of homesewers. I never know what&#039;s going to piss people off. And you&#039;d think I would know since I seem to do it so well ~sigh~

I invite you and your friends to submit requests for tutorials at anytime. There is _nothing_ I&#039;d like more than to know what they want to know. I&#039;d love to write a book for home sewers on their top ten sewing peeves.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I certainly hope things are working out better. I wouldn&#8217;t know because I&#8217;m afraid to go back now. There is nothing more intimidating that a whole slew of homesewers. I never know what&#8217;s going to piss people off. And you&#8217;d think I would know since I seem to do it so well ~sigh~</p>
<p>I invite you and your friends to submit requests for tutorials at anytime. There is _nothing_ I&#8217;d like more than to know what they want to know. I&#8217;d love to write a book for home sewers on their top ten sewing peeves.</p>
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